Hey 2015!!!

YAAY  WE MADE IT!

You should never take life, people or dreams for granted. I am forever thankful that I have been blessed enough to see 26 years of life. I have experienced failed friendships, relationships, highs and lows in different fields of work and everyday drama with family..  but I'm still here!! woop!!
Now we're into 2015, I am literally so excited about achieving! I can truly say I have matured and learnt some life lessons the hard way.
At 18, I thought I was sooo grown. I really believed I knew it all, and had it all figured out...  but boy was I wrong!! lol Between then and now, I have found myself (and still continue to work who I am). I know I am deserving of nothing but the best, I won't settle or downgrade my standards and I certainly have the potential to be GREAT!
It took me a good few failed friendships to realise, not everyone is for you or supportive of your journey. Your closest friends sometimes don't  want you to succeed if it means you may be doing better than them.. I learnt that the hard way, but it has strengthened my character and taught me how to move on and let go.
The last relationships I  have been involved in, I have come to realise that, everyone has different standards, different ways of viewing things and not everyone respects your opinion or cares to hear it. Coming out of these situations I've learnt not settle. Compromising things to make someone else happy isn't always wise, especially when it can leave you feeling sad. Committing to someone is a big deal, whether married or not. Making that conscious decision to accept that person with all their flaws, simply because you want to love them regardless, is a challenging thing to do. Love shouldn't be conditional, but so often make it to be that way. Nonetheless I've learnt to dash way the people that don't hold the same respect and integrity I feel a relationship should hold. Compatibility is a must when it comes to morale.
Anywho, what I am trying to say is, DO YOU this year! Make you YOUR priority. Don't hold back and don't downgrade your dreams or your standards!!!

So, my New Years celebration was very low key this year, but it was perfect! I was with my family and church family. Everyone was dressed in black and white. We ate, danced along to the live band and said a little pray of thanks.
I chose to wear all black and a white blazer. Details below :)

I purchased the white blazer months and months back at a charity shop. I kept my look dressy and chic by keeping all the drama in the trousers. Because the trousers had a lot of texture, I chose not to emphasize anything else. A simple water fall top and strappy shoe, tied everything in.

BLAZER- Charity Shop

TOP- Primark

TROUSERS- ASOS

SHOES- United Footwear



I hope everyone enjoyed their New Year celebrations (if you celebrated). This time of year  most people get a little carried away and drank or have a super low key night and do absolutely nothing lol. Here are a few pictures from last night. Enjoy!

Everyone looked beautiful and I'm sure we all had a great time. Best dressed for the night in my opinion went to my twin! He looked real stylish and dapper. Didn't quite stick to the black and white theme, but what fashionista does! ;) (He was feeling himself lol look at the stance)

STYLE TIP-  Out with the old, in with the new!!! Lets go shopping haha :)

NEW YEAR BASICS!

ONE MORE SLEEP UNTILL WE ENTER 2015!!!

I am really looking forward to entering the new year, with an EXRA fresh outlook! I vowed to myself that I would end 2014, how I intend to enter 2015. I have set goals and stayed consistent in doing things towards those goals. I want to take things up a notch in all aspects of my life and I'm thoroughly looking forward to a new beginning.
Everyone sets 'New Year Resolutions'... I think it's a healthy thing to do! Once you tell yourself you are going to do something, you work towards doing it. HOW to achieve, WHAT needs to be done, WHEN will it be accomplished. Planning ahead makes a huge difference. An old friend of mine taught me the importance of planning. It allows for you to dream big and take action!!

I'm sure many of us have plans, to celebrate making it through 2014 and feeling blessed enough to see 2015. I have a black and white do at my church. So I have thrown together a few basic outfits to work around. These fits are just the basis of an outfit...you can add accessories, a blazer, layers etc to look more glam!

A leather top and a pair of white trousers can go a long way. Wear this with a stiletto heel and printed blazer or jacket to spice up the look. If you're wanting to look extra glam, a statement necklace or dangly pair of earrings will do the trick.

TOP- New Look
TROUSERS- Charity Shop
SHOES- London
BAG- Charity Shop

 Again this is a plain outfit to work around. I'm wearing a black bralet, a pair of leather high-waisted jeans and a cropped jacket, made by my mama. To sprinkle some fabulousity onto this outfit, adding gold accessories (a gold cuff, necklace or earrings) a statement clutch and a bold lipstick, will enhance the whole look and have you ready to dance around in style.

HAT- London
JACKET- My mama
BRALET- Primark
JEANS- Ebay
SHOES- United Footwear

This look can be enhanced by adding layers. A boostier or waist coat over the top of the shirt will add some flavour. Or even a thick waist belt with the shirt tucked in will allow a chic sassy feel. Adding pieces of jewellery always gives that extra glamour!

SHIRT- My mums
SKIRT- Boohoo.com (Altered in skirt, was a dress)
SHOES- United Footwear
GLASSES- Ebay

A pair of thigh-high boots are a great staple piece for a night out! I am wearing it with a soft mohair white jump-dress. This look is comfortable and cute. To vamp up the whole look, a loud hair-do and sultry makeup will pull this look together.

JUMPER-DRESS- Cow Vintage
BOOTS- Ebay (Chinese Boutique)

I hope these looks have inspired y'all in getting ready for the new year! Go out in style!!

STYLE TIP-  Ensure the choices you make serve a purpose! Be deliberate and courageous... Let go of all the negativity and think positive! Start a fresh, you have been given another chance! Stay stylish whilst doing so ;)

FESTIVE FITS!

Christmas Cheer

Christmas is around the corner and we'll soon be into the new year! With all the prep to buy loved ones the perfect gifts, there are work do's, Christmas meals and socials to get dressed up for.
I find at this time of year, it's fun to join in the festivities and look the part. I tend to wear a lot of tartan, reds and knitwear. Without realising I gravitate to these specifics, in this cheerful season.
Here are 5 outfits to inspire you. Enjoy!!! :)

This maxi skirt is soft, flirty and simple. I paired it with a cropped glittery jumper and a pair of shocking red heels. This outfit is cute and casual for a night out to the movies with some friends. Throw on a leather jacket, an oversized scarf and you're festively fabulous for the night!

JUMPER- H&M
SKIRT- Vintage Shop
SHOES- United Footwear

For a snazzy dinner with the work colleagues, this look is very fitting. Here I am wearing a gold lace cropped shirt, paired with wide leg trousers. The trousers are chic for any dressy occasion. The gold shirt adds colour, texture and a Christmas feel. A fur coat and a clutch bag will take this look up a notch.

SHIRT- Charity Shop
TROUSERS- CMD
SHOES- United Footwear

I bought this dress around 3-4 years ago to wear to my friends hen night. It's a fussy dress with a loud print. Because it is quite a statement piece, less is more. The hounds tooth pattern is flattering for any shape, giving the illusion of an hour glass figure. To compliment the dress, I have chosen to wear a mesh pair of boots. This outfit is ideal for a Christmas party. Team it with a long trench coat and a dainty body bag!

DRESS- River Island
HEELS- H&M

The tartan print for me always feels very festive, especially in red or blue/green! These high-waisted trousers are perfect for a social with friends. They're comfortable yet dressy. I chose to pair these trousers with a plain nude turtle neck (being that I'm a girl of simplicity).  To liven up this ensemble, a bold statement necklace can be worn, along with a power shoulder blazer.

TOP- Ebay
TROUSERS- Market (I think)
HEELS- United Footwear

For those ladies that feel more comfortable in trousers, but still want to look and feel feminine, this outfit is for you. A glossy fitted shirt or blouse, paired with long tailored trousers and high heels, will have you feeling comfortable yet stylish. I chose these items to wear together, as the colour of the trousers and texture of the shirt is festive! Along with the vibrant heels, makes for a chic, effortless look. A long camel trench coat will pull this look in, having you feeling lush for any Christmas event.

TOP- Exte
TROUSERS- Marks and Spencers
HEELS- United Footwear

STYLE TIP: You may not celebrate Christmas or care for the real meaning, but allow yourself to be around loved ones. Use this season to cherish and spend time with family and true friends! Be kind, extend an olive branch (or mistletoe) and do a random act of kindness. Dress in the spirit of love!

OUTFIT OF THE DAY!

FAUX FUR & SUEDE

 

Evening kittens!

I really love spending time at church on Sundays. I leave feeling encouraged and loved. The main thing I took away from the service was 'Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen'. This is a scripture that really tests your faith. Believing in something you have not received, whether it be a new job, passing an exam or successful relationship.

Faith is something we subconsciously use, throughout our everyday lives. Faith gives you the strength to aim high, to hope and to believe in your dreams.

Anywho I had a great time at church today, followed by a social with my church folk! I chose to wear another relaxed, simple outfit.

 

 

I wore a black faux fur coat, a crotchet textured jumper, my comfy skinny jeans and a pair of thigh-high suede boots. This look was very easy to put together. I knew I wanted to wear a long enough jumper to cover my booty, and also a pair of jeans that weren't black, so I reached for the items that never let me down. 

 

I then threw on my 'doss around' coat to keep me warm. This coat I purchased from Primark.  I bought it with the intention to stay warm, but also as an everyday coat that I don't mind getting a little 'run down'. It is serving its purpose.

Again I raided my mamas closet and stumbled upon this old, vintage looking body bag. I love the colour and size. It fits all my lady tools and looks pretty good.

COAT- Primark

TOP- Birmingham Market

JEANS- Topshop (Joni)

BOOTS- Office

BAG- Mama

 

 

STYLE TIP: When making decisions in how you dress, have faith that you have chosen well. Trust, hope and believe that you look great, so you can be GREAT!

Little Black Riding Hood

Hey Lovebugs!

Here is an outfit of the day of what I wore to church yesterday. It was a cold morning and I just didn't have time to be cold, so I threw on an all black ensemble with a sheepskin coat.
This coat was a 'hand me down' from my mama! She blessed me with this coat about 5years ago! It never fails me each winter! It is black, long and most importantly WARM! It has a slight flair towards the hem line, and a huge hood. These details make me feel like little red riding hood lol.

This look is very simple to achieve. Grab a pair of your favourite jeans and team them with a black loose fitting jumper. Choose your most comfortable court shoe (heels) and the look is complete.
These jeans I purchased from Primark. They are by far my favourite pair, simply because they're high-waisted and flattering.

( Excuse my dry, unimpressed facial expressions, it was cold)

 

COAT- Papaya

TOP- H&M

JEANS- Primark

HEELS- Monkey Schuu

GLASSES- Ebay

 

 

STYLE TIP: Black works every time!